Dear M & J

As word spreads about our book and, now, this blog, we have more and more conversations with SPW about their dating dilemmas. Should she stay with him even though he's told her repeatedly that he doesn't want to have kids? Should she keep visiting him 2 hours away (for the 14th time) when he's only visited her once (and he already had other plans bringing him into the city)? Should she settle for him because he's overall pretty okay or cut things off and venture back into that deep unknown that is the dating world? 

While we can write blog entries until our fingertips blister on dating issues we come across every day (in the media or in person), we would love to deal with the dating issues that are on your mind. Hence, the birth of "Dear M&J." You send us a "letter" - i.e., an email (mythofprincecharming@gmail.com), a blog post (anonymous or not) or a facebook post -- and we will anonymously post your question and respond with what we think you should do. Not only will you get an unbiased third party opinion on the course of action you should take, but you'll have the opportunity to benefit from comments left on the blog by other SPW, some who might have gone or are actually going through exactly what you are.  It's like asking your best friend what to do, but better; there are two of us and we don't know you, so you're sure to get the 100% truth from us each and every time. 

Can't wait to hear from you!